WORDS OF LEGAL CONCLUSION, LEGALESE, POSSIBLE EXAGGERATION, e.g.: abuse, abuser, abusive batterer criminal, crime defamation, defamatory "documented" false allegations fraud, fraudulent harassing, harrassment illegal interrogate libel, libelous molest, molester rape, rapist slander stalker, stalking thief witnessed (instead of "saw") WORDS, ESPECIALLY ADJECTIVES, THAT WHEN OVERUSED INDICATE EXAGGERATION AND/OR ARE JUST ANNOYING AND CALL INTO QUESTION YOUR OWN CREDIBILITY, e.g.: always amazing bias, biased (and synonyms) clearly compelling complete, completely (as an adjective, e.g. "complete violation") corrupt, corruption (and synonyms) crisis critical crucial desperate, desperately despicable devastated, devastating, devastation discriminatory disgraceful emergency extremely falsified getting away with... great (as in "very") horrendous horrible horrific important injustice justice lie, lies, lying never obvious terrified tragedy, tragic travesty unfair, not fair unique urgent very vindictive SUSPICIOUS PSYCHO-POP LINGO, e.g.: acted out, acting out alienate, alienation anger management bi-polar borderline personality brainwashing co-dependent con artist controlling co-parent disclosed (as in the child "disclosed") distraught (describing child) emotional abuse, emotionally abusive empowering estrange, estrangement facilitating "have a relationship with" (referring to a parent) hostile-aggressive parenting hysterical (describing child) intervention (as a noun) legal abuse syndrome manipulating, manipulation, manipulator meaningful relationship narcissist, narcissistic parent, parented (as a verb) parental alienation pornography addict PTSD "reached out to" self-esteem setting boundaries sex addict sociopath, sociopathic survivor traumatic, traumatized verbal abuse, verbally abusive -- supplement page to Mistakes Mothers Make in Child Custody Litigation http://www.thelizlibrary.org/child-centered-divorce/mothers-mistakes-in-child-custody-litigation.htm l